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Satyaman Lama His Childhood
Satyaman is the second son of the family. He had spent his childhood in
comfort and happiness. They kept buffalo and goats in Satyaman’s house. He
had grown up having milk, yoghurt, buttermilk and ghee. He was very simple
as a child. While playing, his friends teasingly called him ‘lato’
(stupid). Satyaman went to a primary school in the village. He was good at
studies so the teachers loved him as honest and obedient.
Satyaman went to school at 10 a.m. During school he sat on the grass
and studied according to the teacher’s orders and in the evening he played
with friends.
Satyaman’s life was passing happily in this way. His father used to go
to the terai from time to time to trade oxen. When he returned he brought
clothes, shoes, sweets and other things for all the family and the house
would be filled with happiness. Satya’s life was progressing happily.
Then one day, after returning home, Satyaman’s father suddenly became
sick. He was bedridden. Weeping and lamentation began in the house. His
mother cried continuously and seeing this Satya also cried. They tried all
sorts of treatment for his father. Satyaman’s elder brother even took him
for treatment to the city but to no avail. And in the end God took away
his father from this world; After that, Satya said, it was as if a
thunderbolt had hit their house. Fighting all sorts of problems, his elder
brother somehow provided food for the family.
His Work
One day after his father’s death, his elder brother and sister came to
Kathmandu and began to work in a carpet factory. They visited home from
time to time, bringing money, clothes, shoes for Satya and other family
members. They recounted the beautiful life and good things of the city. So
Satya also had a desire to go to Kathmandu and earn money.
During Dashain, Satyaman’s cousin had a proposal for Satya to go to
Kathmandu. Satyaman expressed his desire to go and earn money in Kathmandu
to his mother and elder brother. His mother and brother told him to go if
he wished, and so he came to Kathmandu. On the bus trip to the city, many
thoughts passed through his mind: he would go to the city, find a job,
earn money, send the money home to his mother, wear good clothes... His
elder brother took him to the place where he worked and the next day he
took him to a house in Asan and said he would come later. Satyaman did not
want to live in that busy household, though he stayed a few days. One day
Satyaman made a mistake and the master scolded him; and the same day his
brother came. The moment he saw his brother, Satyaman cried and refused to
stay there. So his brother took him from there and kept him in the house
that his friend had painted.
In the beginning Satyaman remembered his home and used to be sad. He
didn’t know how to do the work. There was another household help before
Satyaman and he did most of the work; later he, and the mother of the
house, taught Satyaman how to perform the work. He began to do what work
he was able to do. Two months after he came to that house they admitted
him into Class Two at a school. Satyaman went to school from 10 to 3.30
and at other times he did what work he was able to in the house.
His Education
Satyaman had come to Kathmandu from his home to earn money but he was
very happy to get a chance to study because he had a wish to study even as
a child. From Class Two onwards, Satyaman did the work at home but
continued his studies. Sometimes too much work made it difficult for him
to study in-between, but the family members occasionally helped him with
what he didn’t understand and advised him on how to labor hard in his
studies, on methods to study properly, on suitable study times etc. All
the family members told him to concentrate on his studies. As a result
Satyaman has come from Class 2 to Class 9 today.
“Even though I worked in their house, every year they bought me a new
uniform,” Satyaman says. “I have exercise books, textbooks, pen and
everything, so no one at school knows that I work in another’s house. But
sometimes some friends want to come home but since it is difficult I have
to evade and make up something and at such times I feel a little
embarrassed.”
Satyaman has lived in that house for seven years now. Sometimes he
remembers the happy days when his father was alive, and feels dejected. If
his father had been alive the situation that required him to work in
another’s house would not have arisen. But sometimes he looks at his
present fate and, feeling happy, says “I had come from the village to earn
money, and if I had gone to the carpet factory like my elder brother what
would be my fate, who would give me work and how would I have had to
suffer? “My future would be dark. Today I got the opportunity to learn and
see so many things. If I hadn’t read and known about nations far and wide
and other things then how would I have been able to learn so much? I bless
my good fate that I am living in a house where I will be educated”.
His Dreams
“In the future I wish to pass my S.L.C. from the house where I am
living,” Satya says, “and to try my best to study up to Bachelor level. It
will be enough if the master educates me that far. If the master of the
house cannot and any organization or individual will come forward to
educate me, then a citizen who can stand on his own feet and who is
capable of serving the nation and society will be ready. I will never
forget what each member of the family has done for me and if at any time
they need me then I am prepared to help in any condition.”
Satyaman aims to be a social worker after he completes his studies. In
his words: “In an underdeveloped nation like ours development takes place
only in the cities, and in the villages the development has been about the
size of a fly. More than 40% of the population is below the poverty line.
Who is going to make the breakthroughs of communication available to them?
What will the future be of a person who cannot read a single word? The
‘khate’ (street children) who move in the streets also have desires and
wishes but in this age of ‘who is bigger than whom’ who will understand
their feelings? That is why, to make sure that these children are not
deprived of the warmth of education, I aim to open a social organization
where the poor and talented children will be given training for various
skills as well as encouraged to study.”
Satyaman is not unhappy to have to work in someone else’s house for his
future because now he is taking steps forward towards success. If someone
is there to help for his future, then he can become an understanding,
talented, ideal person. | |
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